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Tefillin: A Primer
This thorough article from Aish.com outlines everything you need to know about tefillin, or phylacteries, the ritual prayer object worn during weekday
How the Bar/Bat Mitzvah Child Participates in the Service
This informative article briefly describes the different roles bar/bat mitzvah celebrants may take on in the service, depending on his/her abilities, as well
Entering Adulthood: The Spiritual Significance of the Bar and Bat Mitzvah
This thoughtful article from Chabad.org gives parents tips on how to transform the Bar/Bat Mitzvah celebration from a fun party to a meaningful
The Laws of Bar Mitzvah
This informative article, written by Rabbi Aryeh Citron of Chabad.org, presents many of the Jewish laws associated with planning a Bar
Today I Am a Man: Thoughts on Contemporary Male Identity for Bar Mitzvah Boys
In this thought-provoking article, Rabbi Daniel S. Brenner explores what it means to be a Jewish man in contemporary American society, encouraging
Toward a Meaningful Bat Mitzvah
This link opens up Toward a Meaningful Bat Mitzvah, a 46 page booklet emphasizing the significance of encouraging young women to be
What Non-Jews Should Know About a Bar/Bat Mitzvah
An appendix from the book “Putting God on the Guest List: How to Reclaim the Spiritual Meaning of Your Child’s
The History & Evolution of the Bat Mitzvah
This excerpt from A Time for Every Purpose Under Heaven by Renewal Rabbi Arthur O. Waskow provides a survey of the
What Is the Haftarah, and Why Do We Read It?
This informative article by Rabbi Peretz Rodman provides a thorough introduction to the Haftarah, the weekly reading from the Prophets often recited
Reform Bar/Bat Mitzvah FAQ
This thorough article answers many Frequently Asked Questions about the Bar/Bat Mitzvah coming-of-age ritual, including questions about the origins and
The Bar/Bat Mitzvah Guide
This 7 page long guide from Aish.com outlines everything you need to know about the Jewish coming-of-age ceremony. Rabbi Shraga Simmons introduces
Baruch Shepetarani: Traditional Bar Mitzvah Blessing from Father
This post provides the Hebrew, English and transliterated text for the ‘baruch shepetarani’ blessing, traditionally recited by fathers on the
Bar/Bat Mitzvah Basics
This introductory article from Judaism 101 explains the Bar/Bat Mitzvah basics, including an explanation of the terms, the meaning behind this Jewish
The Bar Mitzvah as a Milestone for Engagement and Accountability
In this short video, Dr. Rachael Turkienicz introduces the Bar Mitzvah coming of age ritual in Judaism, with an emphasis on
A Bat Mitzvah Girl Describes the Jewish Rite of Passage
In this introductory video, 12-year old Emily describes her recent Bat Mitzvah at an Orthodox Synagogue, while comparing her experience with that of
What to Expect at a Bar or Bat Mitzvah
This short animated video provides guests with some basic information about what to expect at a Bar or Bat Mitzvah and how
How to Plan a Jewish Wedding: A Checklist
This informative article provides a checklist of 7 things a couple should consider when planning their Jewish wedding, ranging from how
Jewish Weddings 101: The Traditions, Rituals and Liturgy
This informative article provides a basic outline of the Jewish wedding ceremony, including the rituals, customs and liturgy performed before, during,
Why We Break the Glass at Jewish Weddings
This minute long animated video provides three different reasons for the custom of smashing a glass under the chuppah at a Jewish
What to Expect at a Jewish Wedding Ceremony
This minute long animated video briefly introduces various Jewish wedding traditions, including the “ketubah” (wedding contract), the seven blessings under the “chuppah” (wedding canopy),
The Role of Wine in Jewish Tradition
This excerpt, from an article by Rabbi Maurice Lamm, explains the integral place of wine in Sabbath, festival, and wedding
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Tefillin: A Primer
This thorough article from Aish.com outlines everything you need to know about tefillin, or phylacteries, the ritual prayer object worn during weekday
How To Put on Tefillin
In this 4 minute long instructional video, Rabbi Steven Exler provides a step-by-step guide to putting on tefillin, or phylacteries, which are
12 Ways to Make Your Bat Mitzvah Meaningful
This post suggests a list of 12 ways a Bat Mitzvah girl can make her Bat Mitzvah more meaningful, including
How to Plan a Special Needs Bar/Bat Mitzvah
This important article provides tips to help parents, educators, rabbis and students work as a team to give children with special
How to Choose a Mitzvah Project for a Bar/Bat Mitzvah
This thorough article provides tips, suggestions and resources for adding a social action component to a Bar/Bat Mitzvah celebration in a
Bar Mitzvah/Bat Mitzvah Gift Guide
This thorough article provides tips for how to choose a gift for the Bar/Bat Mitzvah celebrant that is appropriate for the
Learn to Recite Aliyah Blessings & Read Torah and Haftarah With Trope
This interactive online tool from Chabad.org allows you to learn how to chant the traditional aliyah blessings, Torah portion and
Pre-Bar-Mitzvah Checklist
This post offers a basic checklist to assist in preparing for the religious aspects of a traditional Bar Mitzvah celebration, from
Orthodox Bar Mitzvah Honoree List
This article from Chabad.org contains a list of all of the opportunities to honor family and friends during a Shabbat morning synagogue
Bar/Bat Mitzvah Trope, Blessings & Readings in Multiple Traditions
This website is an excellent resource for Bar/Bat Mitzvah students looking to learn the traditional Orthodox tunes (trope), blessings and readings
Toward a Meaningful Bat Mitzvah
This link opens up Toward a Meaningful Bat Mitzvah, a 46 page booklet emphasizing the significance of encouraging young women to be
The Bar/Bat Mitzvah Guide
This 7 page long guide from Aish.com outlines everything you need to know about the Jewish coming-of-age ceremony. Rabbi Shraga Simmons introduces
Bar Mitzvah Etiquette Video: Religious Rituals & Dress Code
This 13 minute long video from Temple B’rith Kodesh (Reform) explains the rituals and etiquette of Bar/Bat Mitzvah ceremonies to parents, students,
What to Expect at a Bar or Bat Mitzvah
This short animated video provides guests with some basic information about what to expect at a Bar or Bat Mitzvah and how
Choosing a Wedding Date: Auspicious & Forbidden Dates in the Hebrew Calendar
This article from Chabad.org presents a list of all of the dates in the Hebrew calendar that are considered auspicious, not recommended, or
How to Plan a Jewish Wedding: A Checklist
This informative article provides a checklist of 7 things a couple should consider when planning their Jewish wedding, ranging from how
A Traditional Jewish Marriage Ceremony (Outline & Texts)
This article provides an outline of the entire traditional Jewish marriage ceremony, including explanations of the various customs as well
Halachic Prenuptial Agreement
This post includes information about the Halachic Prenuptial Agreement, including a short video from ORA: The Organization for the Resolution of Agunot encouraging
Dance the Hora: How to do the Jewish Celebration Dance
This minute long animated video teachers viewers how to dance the “hora,” an ecstatic Israeli circle dance with roots in Eastern European folk tradition,
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Torah Blessings for Interfaith Partners at Their Child’s Bar/Bat Mitzvah
These blessings to be recited before and after the reading of the Torah were developed to honor parents of non-Jewish backgrounds
Reform Blessing Before Placing Tallit on Bar/Bat Mitzvah
This post presents a blessing to be said before placing the tallit (ritual prayer shawl) on the Bar/Bat Mitzvah, beginning
Passing the Torah Scroll Ceremony
This 42 second long video presents an example of a typical “passing the scroll” ceremony, wherein the Torah scroll is symbolically passed
Bar/Bat Mitzvah Trope, Blessings & Readings in Multiple Traditions
This website is an excellent resource for Bar/Bat Mitzvah students looking to learn the traditional Orthodox tunes (trope), blessings and readings
Reform Blessings Before & After the Reading of the Haftarah (Text & Audio)
This post presents an audio recording and the Hebrew, English and transliterated texts of the blessings recited before and after
Prayer Recited by a Bat Mitzvah Girl According to Italian Ritual
This post presents the Hebrew, English and transliterated texts of the prayer recited by the Bat Mitzvah girl, according to
Baruch Shepetarani: Traditional Bar Mitzvah Blessing from Father
This post provides the Hebrew, English and transliterated text for the ‘baruch shepetarani’ blessing, traditionally recited by fathers on the
Bar Mitzvah Etiquette Video: Religious Rituals & Dress Code
This 13 minute long video from Temple B’rith Kodesh (Reform) explains the rituals and etiquette of Bar/Bat Mitzvah ceremonies to parents, students,
Ketubah Texts from Across the Jewish Spectrum
This 22 page long PDF document includes a variety of different Ketubah (marriage contract) texts in Hebrew and English from
A Traditional Jewish Marriage Ceremony (Outline & Texts)
This article provides an outline of the entire traditional Jewish marriage ceremony, including explanations of the various customs as well
Halachic Prenuptial Agreement
This post includes information about the Halachic Prenuptial Agreement, including a short video from ORA: The Organization for the Resolution of Agunot encouraging
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Elohim Hai: Moroccan Bar Mitzvah Piyut
This 6:36 minute long video presents Rabbi David Kadoch singing two versions of a traditional liturgical Bar Mitzvah song, the first according
Bat Mitzvah Girls Perform “L’Dor Vador” During “Passing the Scroll” Ceremony
This video presents two Bat Mitzvah girls performing “L’Dor Vador” (From Generation to Generation), a song composed by Josh Nelson
Debbie Friedman: The World of Your Dreams (Andy’s Bar Mitzvah Song)
This post presents the lyrics to “The World of Your Dreams (Andy’s Bar Mitzvah Song),” composed by beloved Jewish American
If I Forget Thee, O Jerusalem: A Carlebach Chuppah Song
This audio recording features Rabbi Shlomo Carlebach singing his original melody for “If I Forget Thee, O Jerusalem,” a Hebrew song often sung under
Yaakov Shwekey: Tefilat Kallah – The Bride’s Prayer (English + Hebrew)
With onscreen Hebrew, English and transliterated lyrics, this video by the well-known Jewish musical entertainer, Yaakov Shwekey, presents an emotive rendition
Siman Tov U’Mazel Tov: A Jewish Celebration Song with Subtitles
This upbeat video presents the popular Israeli folk song “Siman Tov U’Mazel Tov” with an on-screen English transliteration of the Hebrew lyrics,
Hava Nagila: A Jewish Celebration Song with Subtitles
This video presents the popular Israeli folk song “Hava Nagila” with an on-screen English transliteration of the Hebrew lyrics. Translated as
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Remember Us: The Holocaust Bnai Mitzvah Project
Remember Us: The Holocaust Bnai Mitzvah Project invites children preparing for their bar/bat mitzvah to connect with the memory of children lost
Taking Up the Staff of Our Ancestors: A Bar/Bat Mitzvah Poem
This poem describes the “staff” of Jewish heritage being passed from generation to generation, from Biblical times until today. With an emphasis
Bar Mitzvah Blessings from the Chief Rabbis of Israel (Video)
This site presents video blessings for Bar Mtizvah boys from the former Ashkenazi and Sephardic Chief Rabbis of Israel, both
The Voice of a Mother: A Prayer for the Bar Mitzvah Boy
This post presents an emotional prayer written by a mother on the occasion of her son’s Bar Mitzvah. A heartfelt plea
The Short Version of the Chabad Bar Mitzvah “Maamar”
This link will open up an abbreviated version of a speech first recited by Rabbi Sholom DovBer Schneersohn, the fifth Rebbe of
Bar/Bat Mitzvah Date Calculator
This online tool from Chabad.org allows the user to enter his/her birth date and time to determine the date and corresponding Torah
Orthodox Bar Mitzvah Honoree List
This article from Chabad.org contains a list of all of the opportunities to honor family and friends during a Shabbat morning synagogue
Bar/Bat Mitzvah Ideas & Primer for Interfaith Families
This 32 page booklet was designed by InterfaithFamily.com to help interfaith families navigate the process of planning a Bar/Bat Mitzvah ceremony and celebration.
The Adult Bar/Bat Mitzvah
This article about the phenomenon of Jews celebrating their Bar/Bat Mitzvahs as adults presents some of the different reasons why
A Mother-Daughter Bat Mitzvah Workshop
This link opens up a workshop for Bat Mitzvah girls and their mothers that involves text study, song, the creation
Seven Circles: A Wedding Poem Inspired by Kabbalah
This poem is based on the Jewish wedding custom wherein the bride circles the groom seven times underneath the Chuppah. Written
Thoughtful Interpretations of the Sheva Brachot (7 Blessings)
This post, which provides thoughtful interpretations of each of the Seven Blessings recited under the Chuppah during the wedding ceremony, shows
Choosing a Wedding Date: Auspicious & Forbidden Dates in the Hebrew Calendar
This article from Chabad.org presents a list of all of the dates in the Hebrew calendar that are considered auspicious, not recommended, or
Halachic Prenuptial Agreement
This post includes information about the Halachic Prenuptial Agreement, including a short video from ORA: The Organization for the Resolution of Agunot encouraging
A Jewish Wedding Story: Miriam & Babak Talk About Reinterpreting Traditional Ritual
In this 2 minute long video, Miriam and Babak share how they reinterpreted traditional Jewish ritual during their unique mountaintop wedding. With
Mother’s Prayer for Bar/Bat Mitzvah Upon Lighting Shabbat Candles
This short English prayer is recited by a mother prior to blessing the candles on the Shabbat celebrating her son/daughter’s